You’ve sensed it.
That feeling that you’re scattered across tasks, roles, even identities — doing all the things, yet not quite standing in yourself.
There’s a longing beneath your outer life.
Not for more effort. But for alignment.
For simplicity. For soul rhythm.
“I want to feel like I belong to my own life again.”
This is where you begin.
You are not unclear — but your clarity is diluted.
Your presence gets pulled apart.
You have many petals… but no rooted pillar.
Something inside is asking:
What if I could stand in the center of my life again —
and feel whole, without rushing toward the next “fix”?
That’s not a weakness. That’s a calling.
The Pillar and the Flower is a gentle initiation into self-alignment.
It offers you:
You will not be remade.
You will be remembered.
This is a space for caregivers, seekers, leaders, and humans at the edge of inner redefinition.
Pamela Burkhalter
The Gateways has been years in the making—a calling that grew beyond me. As its host and guide, I’ve walked this path with my core tribe, testing and refining what now feels deeply aligned. This work is the integration of all I’ve lived and learned—across law, reinsurance, coaching, leadership, meditation, and more. Rooted in my Hong Kong–Swiss heritage and shaped by a global journey, this offering is a culmination of witnessing real transformation—in myself, clients, and teams. Life isn’t always easy, but it can be made gentler. I’m honored to now share this with you.
Warmly, Pamela Ann 🧡
Duration: 3 sessions over 6 weeks. 2.5h per session (7.5 in total)
Group size: small cohort of 6 to 12 participants.
Platform: Zoom + recording
Includes materials, handouts, integration time.
Private digital group for reflection, support, and presence.
You don’t have to hold the space here.
You get to be held.
You don’t have to be certain. You only have to be willing to listen to what’s calling.
Sliding scale pricing for this cohort: CHF xxx
Further accessibility available with care and conversation
Those who wish to explore deeper offerings, organizational consulting, or Gateways-based programs may find them emerging from the Oasis, not within it.
No funnel. No deadline pressure. Just a threshold. And a hand extended through it.